特润格角落

今日想法, 或成明日笑柄。 明日笑柄, 却是未来笑忆。

天空一直朦胧着

这些日子的天空特别的灰、空气素质也笼罩在烟霾中、气候更是特别的酷热。天气永远是心情最好的写照,意志特别的失丧、未来围绕着朦胧的灰、心情更是焦虑得炽热。

这种的心情延续了就快一个星期,当然如果要从它可能爆发的期限来说,也已经一个月多了。今天,是心情最无法奈何的一天。

自上周面试以来,这份工的老板就吩咐其外包代理给了我第一时间的联络,我被录取了。从面试厅内到外,评语都稍微正面且受喜爱,可以被录取也大概是掌握内的事儿,只是没想到事情可以进展得如此迅速。

被录取的,可以不需要再过着流荡的生活了,这应该是一件值得庆幸的事吧?显然的并没有如盼的期待,反而还添加了多一份的忧愁。

我拖延了回复的期限,想说让我好好琢磨琢磨,最终并没有。在一次仓促的割舍中拒绝了这工。外包的代理即时跟我来了一场激励讲座,希望能够让我清醒过来,在他聘请的这些岁月里,老板在一小时后即时相中是少有中的少有。我就这样草率的说不也难免令她不解,再三要求我三思。

早上6点钟,我随手发了一封拒绝的邮件,面对着还未知的未来狠心的拒绝了。

职场菜鸟可以领到3千还不包括津贴,和出国的机会实在算是安稳的一份收入阿。这一份拒绝的邮件,虽说也是剪贴,但难免也是颇有惋惜。

然而事情不是这样就结束了。

下午3点钟,熟悉的陌生号码响起了。看了看下,“哦……这是那外包代理的来电。”

从她的语气应该是稍有不爽我的意思,“这家伙不过一只菜鸟,还要老娘三顾茅庐的劝说,真不知天高地厚!”这大概会是他的心声吧。

(眼困,睡了……)

这一次外包的开门见山直言,“究竟是什么拦阻你接受这份工作,不妨说说好让我们可以为你解决。是薪酬吗?我们可以再提升的?还有什么原因?”

我要求了片刻的镇静,再回电。从她的语气已经透露得明显——老娘火了!

我拿出了一张纸条,一如既往地写下自己的想法。当然钱是最大的问题,但显然一只菜鸟可以得到这么多的优惠还会拒绝的,钱也显然不是首要的问题。

我拨电回复。“是?”她问。

其实我对未来是否会长期为您服务是个未知数,因此我不想浪费贵公司投资于我的资源,我想这是最大的考量与担忧。至于薪酬,我知道你愿意再增加,只是就如刚才所说,只是害怕耽误了你们的信任与投资。

对于未来的模糊逐渐混淆。以往觉得好好把书读好,赚些大钱过个瑕逸的生活不就好了吗?然而在别人三顾茅庐之下,四千的薪酬与跨国的机会也让我按着心扉难忍的推辞,究竟此刻我的脑袋瓜是在想着什么!

未来的计划你有吗?仍在幻想。
当下你在干些什么?无关紧要。
生活还熬得下去吗?已经丧之。

我,颓废吧。

还愿绝境真能叫人重生。

** 眼睛痛、心率乱、思绪杂,我就不修改、不整理了。



Myself

** it was a random thought and it came in a sudden while preparing for an interviews. haha... Funny enough as it was not really complete and professional in introduce one self. Need comments!! hahaha... 

My name is XXX. As a freshie who’s just graduated, currently I am searching for dream, rethink of what’s the purpose of life and also planning for my future.

All of these came across after gone through years of life experiences, here is the standing point to organize my thoughts which is not yet completed.

I am coming from an ordinary family, which I always like to introduce my family structure with the name of “HamBurger” or any burgers name will do. For the reason is, I have 6 siblings in total, and the eldest is my brother, yet the youngest is me; in between are 4 sister in total. It represents my brother and I as the bread and my sisters as the meat inside (However I have no offence on the gender sensitivity to tell girl as meat or boy as bread).
When I was a child, once my mother asked me, “hey ah boy, what’s your ambition once you grown-up?” I still remembered I was watching a drama, on the police chasing the criminal, without thinking more I replied my mom, “police”. From there implanted a bad habits of me, I was easily influenced by my visuals, on what I look at.

Recalled back on my primary school life, the most significant  and terrible experience I had gone through was when I was 8 years old, I had been selected to perform a speech, however due to my ego of being selected, I was lack of practicing and the consequences was, I gave the speech haltingly. Besides that, I were quite a naughty boy, always thought of some weird games or activities according to the resources that I can gain idea from the surrounding. My friends and I also like to draw some comics with our own story lines, even some bad things was included in our books. Therefore whenever I have the opportunity to counsel some “bad students”, I would like to challenge them, if you think you are bad, how bad have you done if just lazy or playing truancy. A reverse ways of psychology tricks.

My secondary school life, was the journey I withdraw myself from the past failure experience in delivered speech. I spent up almost my whole secondary life to stand again on the stage, to deliver a thank you speech at the closing ceremony of a school motivational camp as I am the camp president. How I actually did that was, it was really lucky that I have chance to participate in church volunteering program, as a youth leader since 14 years old until present. That the great decision I had made during my youth period in taking up the challenges.

Is not easy for me to talk in front of people as I am a slow person, I need more time to prepare, and assume what might people ask or response, from there to design my way of conducting speech or training. Therefore, I know myself that I need more time and still a long journey to go before I can become a professional trainer.

The reason why I want to be a trainer was quite simple. Through some exposure in different kinds of social works and care, especially in the teenager group of age, by walking along the street looking at the homeless; the empathy in me was a calling, I have to help them!

Unfortunately, I have not much money to donate as the money could help in a long term. I strong calling from my heart with a rational consideration, I would actually hope that, someday, I can establish a NGO in delivering aids in development for these youth in poor and homeless who is willing to help themselves but without medium. Through different participation of forum and program, not to empower my knowledge and understanding, but it affirmed me that I have to do this one day. In fact, starting from now, I have begun step by step with what I manageable to contribute.

I believe, with a passion is not enough, I need professional guidance to complete my empathy in a more practical ways. That’s why I am here today, thank you.   

additional question might be asked that did not clarify from above: 

University level:
I want to make my lifestyle a balance one, in a holistic aspect. From the programs or activities I joint, I’m quite picky, I have participated in a event program which I have to deal with different people in exchanging ideas, such as Cultural Festival. Besides that, I also join Choir as I see it as an artistic enjoyment for life, sport such as basketball and starting from last year, I was learning how to swim and register in various workshop or conference to make myself updated to current issues, last but not the least was volunteering program that I always enrolled in.

Exchange to Korea:

I will say that the time at Korea was the great experience I ever had. It helped me in dealing with the lonely feeling, from there, I have to adapt myself to a new environment and gladly I managed to pick up very fast. The achievement I had done at Korea was, I took the initiative to be the information transmitter to friend from different countries, hence, it helped me to know new friends faster when I gathered useful information for them. I also enrolled in a society, as one of the activities planner working in a team to design special activities for exchange students. Lastly, I had been selected to participate in a hope mentoring program which I have to take care of a Korean middle school students. The role I played is to share daily life, listened to the mentee sharing as well, and also organized outing to build up our friendship. I felt that I am living at a foreign land but a local heart. 

*** keep bluffing...